No one likes to be lied to, but it’s sometimes hard to know if someone is telling the truth.
- Do you think you could tell if someone was lying to you? What clues might help you know if someone is lying? (Talking too fast, speaking in an overly formal way, averting eye contact, etc.)
Sometimes the most convincing, charming people can hide deception behind their words. Let’s take a look at different ways you can tell if someone is lying to you.
Share the following video with your students [2:55; stop at 2:20].
5 Easy Tricks to Spot a Liar and Protect Yourself
Sadly, the signs of lying in the video might be hard to spot when we’re in a situation. Plus, they aren’t foolproof. Someone might look away when they’re talking to you because they’re lying . . . or because they’re uncomfortable with eye contact. Even if you were a lie detection expert, you wouldn’t be foolproof. There’s no way to be positive that someone is telling you the truth.
- Now that these “tells” of dishonesty have been pointed out to you, do you recognize any of them in yourself when being less than truthful? Which ones? (Answers will vary; to initiate the conversation, share at least one sign you’ve seen in yourself.)
- Two of the common reasons people might lie are because they are embarrassed about something or because the outcome of a situation is very important to them. When might this be true in a high school situation? (Teenagers are often insecure and can lie in order to exaggerate or redefine a narrative. They can also lie in situations such as homework completion, etc. to keep them from suffering the consequences of a bad decision.)
It’s natural to lie. As Christians, though, God calls us to a higher standard. That’s why God wants the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth! The Bible records many warnings against dishonesty—and even the occasional situation when godly people withheld the truth in order to protect or further the will of God. Today we will study some of the risks and rewards of telling the truth.