What connects us? This is a question we’ve had to evaluate, especially in the last several years. Following the COVID-19 pandemic, there was a significant period of time in which we had to figure out how to connect with others in new ways.
For a while, social media and technology became the primary ways we could connect with other people.
- How do social media and technology have the ability to connect us? (Accept all reasonable answers. Technology allows us to connect with others regardless of distance. We can see and hear from people on the other side of the world. We’ve learned we can do just about any activity via the Internet, thanks to social distancing.)
While technology is still a major way we connect with others, it’s important to also prioritize in-person connection. Let’s hear some of the suggestions one online article offers for building meaningful in-person connections with people:
“Be genuinely interested in people.
Compliment others sincerely.
Remember personal details.
Share information about yourself too.
Practice active listening (listen, listen, listen!).”
- Which of these suggestions stood out to you? Why? (Accept all reasonable responses.)
- How does in-person interaction have the ability to connect us in a way that technology cannot? (Accept all reasonable answers. In person, we can experience touch and don’t have to rely on Wi-Fi strength to connect. Some people may not have Internet access and therefore miss out on virtual connection. It can be easier to have a conversation or experience a moment or sensation together. We may have learned to value this now more than ever. )
- How have you experienced connection with others recently? (Accept all reasonable answers. Students may have experienced more quality time with family recently, sharing more laughs—or tears—around a table or over a game night. Students may have also recently connected with teachers or classmates or their church family.)
- What is difficult about connecting with others? (Accept all reasonable answers. Time, proximity, access, and personal differences all play a role, as well as our own ability or willingness to make the effort to connect.)
After Jesus’ life, death, resurrection, and ascension, the very first Christians were left to live out this new religion, new beliefs, and new lifestyle day by day, together. The “together” part wasn’t always easy because they came from different backgrounds, but they were all connected by their commitment to Jesus and the power of the Holy Spirit. This is true of Christians today, too—we are all different, but Jesus connects us to each other.